Dating for people who can't date good. (And who wanna learn to other stuff good too.)

Hey, it's your Uncle Zip with another tip!

So, you got yourself a crush and you want to go on a date? Now, I know you get all choked up and nervous when you think about asking them out. But here's the deal, I asked every woman I know and they have all gone on a date and didn't know it was a date until later. We gotta work on our communication here.

So here's the deal, instead of asking "Would you like to go to the movies with me on Friday?" You have to leave yourself some room for success and declare your intent. Try "I like you, can I take you out on a date?" this leaves the activity, and timing open to discussion and declares your intent to date them.

OK, I hear you! you're sooooo shy. you need to build some confidence first. Now this isn't a sure-fire thing, but it's pretty good. The next time you are with your someone, ask them to come with you and guide them somewhere. Now make sure there is a doorway or other narrow spot in the path. when you come to it reach back to take their hand and help them through the doorway. If they take your hand, don't let go just yet. Look at them and give that hand two quick squeezes. If they do the same back there's a very good chance they will accept your date invite.

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